Thankfulness on Mother’s Day

God has blessed us with two beautiful, healthy children. On Mother’s Day, as I think about my mother and Matthew’s and the mothers who have gone before us, I am also thinking how thankful I am to be a mother. My little ones aren’t old enough yet to express thanks or make plans to celebrate the day, but I can be still and savor the sweet moments, watching them be just themselves.

This morning I distracted Peanut while I ate my oatmeal by playing peek-a-boo behind a plastic plate. She giggled and grinned, and when I set it down, she picked it up and hid behind it. Six or seven times, she moved the plate aside and flashed that adorable toothless grin at me. For the first time today, she played peek-a-boo by doing the peeking herself. So cute!

At the end of a webcam chat with my mom this evening, she coached Little T on how to “get a hug from Nana” over the internet. He crossed his little arms over his chest and squeezed until he grunted. Still squeezing, he squeaked out, “Happy Mother’s Day!” Oh, yes indeed!

One night this week, Little T spontaneously responded, “I love you too” to my good-night wishes. I’ve been secretly smiling about that all week.

Tonight as I tucked him in, we spoke of sleeping well and being ready for a new day tomorrow. “Why is tomorrow an ordinary day?” he asked. “Why is it not Mother’s Day tomorrow too?” You’re right, Little T. It’s always a day for thankfulness and expressing ourselves to those we love.

 

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Banana Song

Overheard in the hallway last night after Little T’s bath:

“Hannah Hannah bo-bana, banana fana fo fana, me my mo mana, Hannah!”

As I was laughing and being impressed that he remembered all the syllables in the song correctly, he continued.

“Daddy Daddy bo baddy, banana fana fo faddy, me my mo maddy, Daddy! Towel towel bo bowel, banana fana fo fowel, me my mo mowel, towel!” Obviously looking around the hallway for inspiration, he found another word. “Switch switch bo …. “,  sweetly and innocently, all the way through.

“Electricity electricity bo [pause] bectricity, banana fana fo [pause] me my mo [long pause] mel- [pause] melec- [slowly] melectricity, electricity!” Ah, a stumper.

I think when he tells me he can’t remember what I’ve said about treating his sister kindly, I might not believe him.

 

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Sweet Baby Potatoes

Peanut with sweet potatoes

Peanut sampling finger food

Big milestone for Peanut this week: she’s beginning to sample solids! She has tasted avocado and banana; licked, sucked and gummed on a carrot stick and an apple slice; and for the first time tonight fed herself some sweet potato. Actually swallowing anything? Maybe. Exploring new tastes and textures, and being allowed to put things in her mouth? Loving it!

Her army crawl has reached racing speed, especially when there’s a tasty morsel in sight on the floor (yuck!) She’s just beginning to get her knees under her – mama watch out when she masters crawling on all fours! Today she decided to move on to pulling up and standing. From a tummy position, she’ll get two hands up and pull her little face over the top, then howl when this back-bending exercise doesn’t get her as high as she wants. Big brother is on the move constantly, and she wants in on it!

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Lava and Dump Trucks

Little T and I were reading a book about the layers in the Earth and how volcanoes work. He stopped me to share this scenario from his imagination:

“If a huge dump truck carrying lava in its dumper bed was racing on a dump truck race track and a big wave splashed up and — plunk — on the dumper bed it would land on the race track. Then it would splat down on the dump truck race track.”

Dump trucks and lava are some of his favorite things, so why not put them together?

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Aquaponics: System Startup

Matthew & Elisabeth with the new system

Our first aquaponics system is up and running!

Matthew completed construction and plumbing on a media-based aquaponics system made from re-purposed 55-gallon plastic barrels and and IBC tote. We planted seedlings and sowed seeds on March 17 and began monitoring water chemistry. As of last Friday, April 6, we had evidence of nitrifying bacteria present in our system, and this week we have proof of nitrates. We’re ecstatic!

What in the world are we talking about?

Aquaponics is a blend of aquaculture (fish farming) and hydroponics (growing plants in nutrient-rich water) that maximizes the benefits of each. The fish provide the nutrients to feed the plants, and the plants filter and clean the water to keep the fish happy. We get to eat vegetables and fish, so we’re happy too.

More specifically, fish waste is high in ammonia. Nitrifying bacteria, naturally present in soil and water, convert the ammonia first to nitrites and then to nitrates, a form of nitrogen highly usable to plants. So the bacteria keep ammonia and nitrite levels low enough for the fish to thrive, and the plants grow like crazy in the nutrient-rich water.

We sprinkled out a variety of seeds on March 17, curious about how they would sprout in the gravel growbeds and what would grow best. So far the radishes are winning, much to Little T’s delight. They are visibly larger every time we check the system, which is twice a day! We have also planted basil, thyme, oregano, parsley, kale, spinach, tomatoes, bell peppers, and carrots.

We started the cycle with a bit of pure ammonia and some bacteria “starter.” Now that we see nitrates in our water tests, algae is taking up residence in our fish tank, and the plants are growing happily, we know the bacteria are thriving. We are ready for fish!

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Bubble Bath

A bubble bath for Little T is hands-free hygiene. He splashes and sloshes so exuberantly that he creates a self-agitating wash cycle. It’s the only effective way I’ve found to clean under his fingernails.

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Independence

Little T cooking his own scrambled eggs

I don’t know which is more exciting: gathering fresh eggs from our own backyard or seeing Little T learn to cook them himself. Such independence!

First he requests “the pan that makes them soft and fluffy.” So I retrieve the small nonstick omelet pan and set it on the stove. Then, while he scoots a chair up to the counter, I crack his eggs into a dish and add a splash of milk. He uses a fork to stab the yolks enthusiastically, and then swirls them around and around the dish. Beating eggs is a tricky skill to learn. Then he clambers down from the chair and slides it three feet over to the stove, while I pour the beaten eggs in the pan and hand him a spatula. He stirs and stirs and stirs until the eggs cook. One final quality check from mom while he verifies that they’re “completely dry”, and he’s ready to eat! How fun!

Of course, independence comes with a learning curve. As I am writing this post, Little T comes to me with his water bottle, half-filled at the bathroom sink after I took the lid off for him. “I got as much as I wanted. I dumped out the water I didn’t want in the toilet and the trash can,” he informs me. Uh-oh. “The trash can? Show me,” I tell him. Sure enough, there is water in the bathroom trash can: about a gallon of it, not to mention the soggy rug between the trash can and his stool at the sink. “How many times did you dump water in the trash can?” I ask him. “About ten times,” he replies.  I KNEW it was a little too quiet in the house!

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Easter

Little T & Peanut

It’s fun to share the meaning of holidays with a little one who is learning it all for the first time. We talked about the Easter story with Little T this week and read a simple book together. He knows that the significance of Easter is that Jesus is alive!

Since tasty object lessons reinforce things more strongly than non-tasty ones, we made Resurrection Rolls for breakfast this morning. We dipped marshmallows (representing the body of Jesus)  in butter and cinnamon (oil and spices for burial preparation) and wrapped them in crescent rolls (the tomb).  After baking them, we bit into the cinnamon-roll tombs to discover – no marshmallows! They had disappeared! Empty tombs, just like the real empty tomb so long ago.

After the church service, we enjoyed lunch and a quiet afternoon with Matthew’s parents and Gram. Visit the Gallery for the rest of our family Easter photos.

 

 

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The Candy Christmas Mouse

Nearly every year, Patti finds a reason to make Christmas Mice. They are clever, tasty, adorable treats that have come to belong to the Christmas traditions each year. This year, after making a large batch for parties and potlucks, she brought one to Little T. Riding in a paper muffin cup, it arrived at our house on a Thursday morning.

Little T was enthralled with this small confectionery creation. He knew it was something special. Grandma explained that  its nose was a chocolate kiss, its ears were sliced almonds, its body was a chocolate-covered cherry, and doesn’t the cherry stem look like a tail? Nestled on the creme of an open Oreo, the tiny mouse was decorated with frosting holly leaves and berries. Little T just grinned and grinned at it. It sat on the kitchen table all morning, and periodically he would stop his play and run into the kitchen to look at it. After a while he began talking to the mouse, and soon he was making the mouse speak too. The sugary goodness lasted all day, completely intact, in its little paper cup. No one told him not to eat it. I began to wonder if he ever would.

The next morning, Little T got up wanting to look at the mouse again. After breakfast, he began carrying it around in its muffin cup, cradled in his small palm. The mouse began to explore the house, but when Mommy warned not to leave it lying in danger on the floor, it took up residence under the Christmas tree.  Later the paper cup was abandoned, and it rode directly in Little T’s hand, but the mouse remain untouched.

Finally, on Friday afternoon, Little T carried his pet into the kitchen and announced that something had happened to its ears. What had happened, Little T? “They got bit!” with a big grin. Sure enough, the almond ears had been truncated just above the edge of the kiss. An hour later, he came to find me in another room. This time the holly berries were gone. “I ate the Christmas off!” he told me proudly, and proceeded to nibble the edges of the Oreo around the mouse. When the cookie crumbled and broke, he nearly got upset, so I gave him the pieces to eat and placed the mouse safely back in its paper holder, where it survived until lunchtime on Saturday.

Patti tells me that several people over the years have refused to eat the mice, instead keeping them as pets in the refrigerator for extended periods of time. Thanks to Little T, I see that they do make splendid pets. I think Little T wins the prize for longest enjoyment of actually eating the mouse.

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Nana’s Visit

In September, Nana and Papa Mark made the trek from Ohio to visit us and meet 3-week-old baby girl. We showed them around the desert museum, our favorite Tucson attraction, then spent most of our time at home just playing with the kids. Little T LOVED all the attention. Being made to feel special in the midst of the new-baby activity has helped his transition very well. He showed off his love of puzzles and introduced Nana and Papa Mark to all the brainteaser puzzles in Matthew’s game cabinet.

We took a picnic to Sabino Canyon on Sunday, where Little T splashed in the creek with Daddy and baby girl napped in the shade with Nana and Mommy.

Check the gallery for more photos of the visit.

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